An honest “asking” will always serve to awaken one. We cannot be helped until we ask.
How do you ask? Sometimes all that is required is for you to say silently, with thought or even yelling it out to the rooftops “I know I want something better than this for myself. I don't know what it is, but there must be something else, bring it on, I'm ready!”. Famous last words huh!

::::That is all that is required to get the ball rolling

One of the great secrets that we tend to overlook in the daily bustle of life is that we need to create an intention or desire before we pull anything to us.

Whether we are aware of it or not we are asking all day long, everyday usually unconsciously and mostly in the negative with our self-talk and self-put downs and hence we get more of the same because of this. But just the genuine, surrendering “one sincere thought” for something better is all it takes to trigger a landslide of newness and change into your sphere of influence, your life...

• You may feel alone even in familiar surrounds and with familiar people
• You feel an urgent need to find your life purpose
• Structures that haven't been working in your life will become blatantly obvious
• You may feel alien to the rest of your family
• You may feel like bringing in change all around you at once
• Friendships & relationships may change or become strained as you are growing and the ones around you are not, they are still sleeping
• An urge to get your family and friends to wake up too, so they will understand you as they used to
• An insatiable thirst for knowledge which may lead to increased reading, attending courses, joining forums
• You may feel like you want to go home and opt out of this earth trip
• A feeling of wanting to be cut off from others who do not understand you as you grapple with coming to know yourself for the first time consciously
• An increased sensitivity to harsh environments, conversations, foods, people, sounds, smells
• You may pick up on others feelings more easily and not be able to decipher these from your own
• A sense that others are staring at me like they know something has changed
• Changing your personal style of clothing, music, your speech, your body shape, hair
• Speaking up and out or alternatively becoming quiet until you understand further what is going on
• Sleep patterns changing. Perhaps more vivid or lucid dreaming or experiencing outer body trips (OBE's)
• Hearing high pitched frequencies in one ear of the other as you are downloaded with soul information
• Increased instances of Déjà vu, where you get glimpses of memories that you have run this movie by yourself before
• Dietary changes, being attracted to different foods and going off others. Alcohol affecting your system differently, not being able to drink much without feeling ill or giddy
• A sense of being off balance physically
• Heightened senses of smell, sight, taste, touch, sixth sense
• Headaches in various parts of your skull. A feeling of your brain being re-wired
• A new appreciation for nature and the cycles of life
• Wanting to travel to all those places you have been dreaming about, right now!
  
  

• Seek out information which is abundantly available today on the internet and in books on the relationship of the soul and our physical existence
• Start a journal of thoughts and experiences. Write in it regularly of the synchronicities which are happening. Record your dreams, even if it's just a feeling you can remember at first. This will open you up to being able to fully replay the sub consciousness' messages to yourself
• Use and develop your discernment when you seek out assistance on understanding the soul and who is the real you
• Trust your gut “feelings”. If it feels right then it is right for you. As you move along your path of opening up to new ways of being you will change your thoughts and therefore belief systems as you go along. What feels right for you today may change by next month or sooner. So go easy on yourself and know that you will be constantly evaluating and adopting new truths into your awareness
• Know that it is not a race to see who can have the most knowledge and complete answers first. You are in a constant state of growth and unfolding and this is just as it should be. This is very freeing knowledge indeed and will allow you to flow rather than try and control outcomes
• Start courses which interest you on the metaphysical aspect of life. These can be at your local community centre or college or though an independent teacher. Trust your gut if what you are being taught feels good for you, you will know
• Ask questions to people who have been where you are now, those who “understand” what you are going through. Forums can be great here. Avoid bombarding your friends with questions and insights which they may not be able to comprehend if they have not woken up as you have
• Join a regular meditation group to teach you how to go within and hear the voice of your true self. This will also create a greater awareness of your multidimensional self in the broader scheme of life
• Go see a Complementary Therapist for a personal session to allow you to feel subtle energy and be provided with guidance from an experienced person who has been where you are. Use your intuition on whom to decide to go see. Know that we are all drawn to different therapies, beliefs and therefore teachers and healers. There is no “one” better way than the other.
  
  
  
  

• The Internet. Google up key words pertinent to you. You will be amazed at the wealth of knowledge at your fingertips
• Visit a Metaphysical bookstore or healing centre where you can meet experienced professionals and pick up flyers and pamphlets on sessions, groups, talks or courses
• Join an online Spiritual Forum where you can ask questions and share your ideas in anonymity if you wish. You can also make new like minded friends which is very important
• Practice meditation and quieting the mind so you can hear your inner voice. This may take a little practice, but is essential. As you have all knowledge within you just waiting to be tapped into and brought out for conscious use
• Create a personal journal where you write, speak or draw your feelings and thoughts on what is happening to you. This will prove invaluable as you map your progress and insights
• Book in for a regular personal healing session (regularly, just like getting your hair cut) where you can spend quality time with an experienced professional going over your questions and experience an energy balance whilst tapping into your soul self
• Keep your new ideas and thoughts to yourself whilst you are in the infancy stages of understanding what is happening. This will ensure you are not put off track by friends and associates who think they know better than you or are trying to keep you asleep